Why You Should Suck at Something New Every Year

The beginner’s mindset: your secret weapon for staying sharp.

In a world that’s constantly changing, the ability to learn and adapt is your greatest asset. Trying something new every year keeps you flexible, creative, and ready to tackle whatever life throws your way. Plus, it’s a hell of a lot of fun.

Try Something New

When was the last time you tried something new? I mean really new—something that made you feel like a total amateur? For me, it was surfing. Picture this: a sixty-year old guy flailing on a foam board, getting pummeled by waves, and swallowing enough salt water to season a year’s worth of meals. It wasn’t pretty, but it was transformative.

Learning to surf taught me more than just how to catch a wave. It reminded me how to embrace failure, stay curious, and push through discomfort. That’s the magic of the beginner’s mindset—it keeps you sharp, adaptable, and open to growth.

Challenge Yourself Annually

Here’s my challenge to you: every year, pick one new skill, hobby, or activity to tackle. It doesn’t have to be monumental. It could be learning to play the ukulele, taking up salsa dancing, or finally figuring out how to bake sourdough bread without creating a hockey puck.

The point isn’t to become an expert—it’s to reignite your curiosity and remind yourself what it feels like to learn. Trust me, there’s nothing like being a beginner to keep your brain firing on all cylinders.

Learn from Failure

When I took up hockey in my 40s, I was terrible. I could barely skate, let alone handle a puck. But every time I fell (and I fell a lot), I got back up. Over time, I improved—not because I was naturally gifted, but because I embraced the process.

These experiences taught me resilience, patience, and the value of a growth mindset. They also made me more empathetic. When you struggle to learn something new, you gain a deeper appreciation for the effort others put into their own growth.

Embrace Vulnerability

Trying something new requires embracing vulnerability. And vulnerability, appropriately, comes from the Latin word vulnerabilis meaning “able to be wounded.” In my case the wounds were physical: torn meniscus from hockey and cracks to the head from surfing.

Wounds, however, can also be psychological because of the challenging effects of failure and of embarrassment. Hawaiians have a great pidgin term for embarrassment: “make ass” as in “making an ass of yourself”…but I digress. So embrace making ass—nobody cares and hardly anyone will even notice.

Take the Leap

So, what’s your “surfing” this year? What’s the one thing you’ve always wanted to try but never dared to? Go for it. Embrace the awkwardness, the failures, and the small victories.

CTA: Reply and share what new skill or hobby you’re tackling this year—I’d love to hear your story!

Mahalo!

Guy